AMERIKECHEA NEW ORLEANS RAJEACHEA KUTTUMBAM-NEAYLOYACHI NITIDARN BERNADETTE D’SOUZA HICHÊ KODDLI MULAKHÔT

Vhoddlem Bhatt, Kepem, Gõy, hangasôr zolmololi Bernadette D’Souza, hea vorsa Fevrerachea mhoineant, Amerikechea New Orleans rajeant Kuttumbam-Neayloyachi Mon’subidarn (Family Court Judge) mhunn sutram hatant ghetlim ani tichem nanv  Amerikecheam toxench Bharotantleam potrancher  gazlem.  Kepenchim  tichim ghorchim opurbayen  “Busha” mhunn ulo kortat. Jednam Kris Kiefer ani Janet Ahern, tiche don virodi, sortintlim bhair sorlim. tednam  Bernadett-achem zoit nischit zalem. Zoita uprant, Bernadettan mhollem, “Hea poileach Kuttumbam-Neayaloyachi zobabdari svikarun amchê neay-vevosthent vavr korunk ani Attorney Janet Ahern ani Kris Kiefer hê sortintlim bhair sorun mhozo vavr beginuch suru  korunk  ji itihasik son’di  mhaka dilea, tea mhojea somazantleam soglleam vangddiank hanv dhin’vastam.  Sogllê gombhirtayen hanv hi zobabdari samballtolim mhunn  hanv tumkam asvason ditam ani mhojê borê seventlean tumcho obhiman zoddtolim mhonn utor ditam.”

Bombay Univerisity-ntlean podvi melloylea uprant, Bernadettan New Orleans-antlê Tulane University-ntlean ‘Law’ podvi zôddli.  1978 vorsa tinnem Amerikent rabito kelo ani atam vhoddponn zoddloleam Keith Vaz, Bobby Jindal, Sunita Williams hanchê sangatim tichea-i nanvacho ul’lêkh zata. Sabar puroskar-ui tika favo zaleat.

Meklleponan aplea jivita vixim uloytanam, Bernadette D’Souza-n, Mumboi ani Kepem, aplea ganvghora sarlolea  bhurgeponnantleam yadincher ani havesancher uzvadd ghatlo.

Tujem bhurgeponn tujea ganv-ghora Kepem, Gõyant, tunvem sarlem.  Têch bhaxen tuzo bapuy Sorgest Tony Gomes êk famad songitkar aslo. Tujea bhurgeaponna ani bapay vixim  amkam thoddem sangxi?

Anthony (Tony) ani Esmeralda Gomes oslim mogall avoy ani bapuy mhaka favo zalim.  Kepeant sarlolea mhojea bhurgeponantleô movall yadi mhojea kallzant ghott asat.  Dôr gimalleachê suttiyent ami Gõyam amchea xamãy-xapayk João ani Anamaria Gomes hankam bhettunk vetaleanv.  Soglleam soireank mellun ami moujen sutti sartaleanv.  Mhozo avoy-bapuy amchea ghorant soglleam soireank boro yevkar ditalo.  Porbeche dis chodd khuxalbhorit astale.  Ghorant soglloch bovall ani umêd.  Mhaka yad zata, eka borea somajik vavra khatir duddu ekttãi korunk,  Novea Vorsachê rati, mhojea bapayn ek nach ayojit kelo.  Hanv taka polleunk gelolem.  Khup lôk zalolo ani soglleamnim mhojea bapayk tachê doyall kornnê pasot vakhannlolo.  Tem khinn ekê dhuvechem kalliz gorvan bhorpa sarkhem aslem.  Gorjevontank adar diunk mhozo bapuy kednach fattim sorunk nam.

Mhozo bapuy Bollywood-antlo êk vhôdd songitkar aslo .  Haka lagun mhojem bhurgeponn hanvem Mumboi sarchem poddlem.  Mhojea jivitacher tachoch chôdd probhav poddlo.  Toch zalo mhozo adorx vô nomunno.  Film recording studio-nt to mhaka zaitê pavtti vhortalo ani to guitar vazoytanam hanv taka polletalem.   Fuddariponnache zaite gunn hanvem mhojea bapay koddleanuch apnnayleat.  Hindi cholchitramnim ‘electric guitar’ vazovpi mhozo bapuy poilo songitkar [See video below/ vidio polloy].  Tachê borobôr astanam, music directors-ank ani yeram songitkarank to mhoji vollôk korun ditalo ani mhaka tacho khup obhiman bhogtalo.  Tachea okosmat zalolea mornnan mhoji jinn rikami zali ani hêch bhavnentlean  mhaka mhojê jinnechi tengxi choddunk sfurti mell’li.  Tannem zôddlolem daiz mhojê jinnecho vantto zala ani sodam tosoch urtolo.

Tum Gõychem katolik cheddum-bhurgem.  Mumboi xarant vaddtanam tunvem koslo onnbhov kelo?

Mumboi xarant ami zõi ravtalim thõisôr choddan-chodd Gõycheam  katolikamnim  rabito kelolo.  Hanv laginch aslolea eka katolik iskolant xiktalem.  8  bhburgeam modlem hanv vhoddlem.  Mhojea bapayk zai aslem mhaka borem xikop mell’lolem; mhonnun tannem mhaka Gõyam, Xiolechea eka konventachea boarding-ant, dovorlem.  Xikxonnachem mhotv to sodanch mhaka pottoun ditalo ani mhojê koddli vhôdd opekxa taka asli.  Hanv iskolant borê bhaxen vavurlem ani mhojê klaxint ‘head girl’ zalem.  Fuddlem xikop korunk porot Mumboi ailem ani Mumboi Vidyapitthantlean ‘Psychology’ hantuntlean hanvem podvi melloyli.

1978 vorsa tum Amerikent ailem.  Hangasôr tum xikxonnik karonnank lagun ailem vô dusro koslo-i  ud’dês aslo?

Dr. Terrance D’ Souza, mhozo ghorkar Kunkolli ganvcho (Gõy).  Tachê kodden logn zalea uprant 1978 vorsa hanvem Amerikent pãy dovorlo.  Neurology hantum ‘medical residency’ korunk to Amerikent ailolo.  Lloyd, Vanessa ani Christine heam   mhojeam tegam apurbayecheam  bhurgeancho sambhall korunk hanv ghorantuch  ravlem.   Amchea nimannea bhurgean jednam KG vorgant provês kelo, tednam mat hanvem  portun fuddlem xikop korunk tharaylem ani  New Orleans-antlea Tulane University Law School-ant provês ghetlo.  1992 vorsa, “Juris Doctor” hi podvi havem melloyli ani magir, 2002 vorsa, Tulane Law School-ant ‘Adjunct Professor’ mhunnon mhoji nemnnuk zali.

Survatek Amerikent tuka koslo onnbhov mell’lo?  Zati-katichea bhedbhavak (racial discrimination)  tuka fuddo korcho poddlo?

Amerikent survatek thaunuch mhaka khub boro onnbhov mell’lo.  New Orleans-achê sonvskrutint, mhozo ghorkar ani hanv bêsborê ritin ekrupi zalim.  New Orleans ek khub borem xar and thõisorlo lôk khup mogall ani moipaxi. Gõycheam xaram bhaxen New Orleans xarant Fransêz ani Ispani lokacho probhav asa.  Hanga ravpi choddant-chôdd lok katolik ani zaiteo adleo igorzô hanga asat.  Ami soglleam kodde rokddich ixttagot keli ani zuim ami ravtanv tea somudayecho êk bhag zalim.  Koslech torechea zati-bhedacho amkam onnbhov yeunk nam.  Êk voiz ani êk vokil (advogad) ami zalolean, soglleo sonvskrutik ximô hupunk amkam sompem zalem.

Somajik seva korunk khõinchean tuka prernna mellta?

Public Interest Lawyer hea natean, hanv eka non-profit law firm-ant vavrunk laglem ani amchea xarantlea  gorjevont lokachem protinidhi zalem.  Zanchê kodden êk vokil kaddunk zainam, tankam hi sonvstha fukott kaido-seva ditalem.  Kuttumbik Kaido ani Ghorguthi Hinvsachar Vibhagachem (family law and domestic violence unit) hanv Managing Attorney zalem.  Xarantlea gorjevont ani gorib lokachem protinidhiponn kortanam, somajik-sevent hanvem bhitor sorpachi goroz mhaka khoreponnim gomun aili.

Ghorguthi hinvsacharacho (domestic violence) mud’do tujea kallzant samko riglolo asa. Kiteak?.

2001 vorsa, Young Christian Women’s Association (YWCA) he sonvsthechem hanv Odheox aslem.  YWCA-n  koxttovtoleam ostoriam pasot ek karyavoll ayojit keloli.  Kuttumbik hinvsachar (domestic violence) vaddot aslo.  Hea oslea hinvsacharak bolli poddloleam ostoriank neay melloun diunchi goroz mhaka gomun aili ani mhojea law firm-ache torfen, “Department of Justice” hantuntlean orthik adar mellunk nivedon kelem.  Southeast Luisiana Legal Services hangasor hanvem mhozo vavr suru kelo.  Kutumbik hinvsachar mhojea kallza lagxil’lo mud’do kiteak tem sangtam.  Niti-ghora bhair zal’li ghôdnni. Neayloyantlem kamkaz sompoun ami bhair sorta thoinch astanam, mhojeam dolleam mukhar mhojea client-ak, ticheach ghorkaran faran marli.  Tea vellar mhaka Devanuch nivarlem oxem hanv khoreponnim man’tam ani heach karonnak lagun oniticheô bolliô poddloleank - ani tancheam bhurgeanchea jivitant - thoddem tori boreponn haddunk vavurtolem mhunn hanvem nichev kelo.”

Tum Gõykarn toxench Katolik dhormantlea probhavantlean vaddlam.  Tuje jinnecher ani tujea vyoktimotvacher (personality)hacho koslo porinnam’ zala tem sangxi? 

Xiolechea katolik iskolant, zõi xikxonnacher ani fuddariponnacher chodd bhôr ditalim, thoim hanvem mhojem xikop kelam.  Gorjevontank adar korpachi khôr itsa, thoim xikoitoleam madrimnim mhojea kallzant rigoyloli.  “ Zankam khup dil’lem asa, tanche koddlean chodd kitem korun gheunchi opekxa asta,” John F. Kennedy-chim him utram.  New Orleans-achea Mha-Dhormprantant hanv vavr korit asam.  Thoimche Firgojeche  Gonvllik-Sobhechi hanv vangddinn.  Tea bhair, Komunhanvachi Osadharonn Munniarinn ani Vachpinn koxem hanv vavurtam.

Amerikechea somazant tum misoll zatanam, ani tuka tannim apnnaytanam, tujea jivitant kosleo  ghôddnnio ghoddleo tem tum amcheam vachpiank sangxi?

Public Interest Law hantuntlean mhojea jivitache vatter mhaka dhadosponn ani sukh mell’lam.  Poile suvater Devak, mhojea ghorkarak ani bhurgeank  hanv dhin’vastam, kiteak somazak bori seva hanvem diunk tinch zalim mhojem boll ani adar.  New Orleans-antlea somazan mhoje sevechi dokhol ghevn mhaka zaite puroskar bhettoyleat.  Halinch  City Business hea khobram- potran, ‘2011 Vorsachi Ostori’ ho mukutt diun mhaka  son’manit kelam. Amerikecho somaz yes ani xreshthtay ollkhun gheta ani haka lagun mhaka aplea somaza modem apnnavpacho prosn uprasunk nam.  Mhojea sukhant bhôr ghalunk mhojim bhurgim-i ap-aplea xetrant porzoll’tat. Mhozo put Lloyd Hollywood-antlo borovpi ani dirgdorxôk (cinema director). Mhoji dhuv, Vanessa (Michael DePetrillo) New Orleans-antlem Patent Attorney mhonn vavurta.  Ani Christine, mhoji dhaktti dhuv, Los Angeles hangasorlea International Sales and Acquisitions at Preferred Contents hantunt Direktor asa.  Aiden Michael DePetrillo ho amcho mogacho natu.

For the original English version see here.

(Chotrai: Hi mulakhôt hea adim15.02.2012 disa Gomantak Times hea potracher Inglezintlean chhapun ailoli)

Initial translation: Walter and Brenda Menezes

Final translation: Fr. Vasco Rego, SJ (Editor, Dor Mhoineachi Rotti)

Dor Mhoineachi Rotti: Otumbr and Novembr, 2012 hea ankancher hi mulakhot don bhagamnim chhapun ailea.

AN INTERVIEW WITH BERNADETTE D’SOUZA, New Orleans’ First Family Court Judge

“My client was gunned down by her husband in my presence after a court proceeding.  I truly believe that God had spared my life and so I became purpose driven to make a difference in the lives of the victims and their children.”

Bernadette D’Souza, originally hailing from Vhoddlem Bhatt, Quepem, Goa, has created waves in the American as well as the Indian press for being elected for the New Orleans’ first Family Court judgeship in the first week of February. Fondly known as “Busha” to her relatives in Quepem, Bernadette D’Souza won the elections when two of her rivals, Kris Kiefer and Janet Ahern dropped out of the race. In her victory statement D’Souza says, “I thank all the members of our community, who have entrusted me with this historic opportunity to shape the role of this new Family Court in our judicial system, including my worthy opponents, Attorneys Janet Ahern and Kris Kiefer, who have allowed me to begin the important work of this court immediately by withdrawing from this race. I want everyone to know how seriously I take that responsibility. I pledge to make you proud of my service as your first Family Court Judge.”

Recipient of numerous awards and honours, D’Souza is a graduate of the Bombay University and Tulane University Law School in New Orleans.  She moved to the U.S. in 1978 and joins the ranks of Keith Vaz, Bobby Jindal, Sunita Williams etc. who have made it big in the West.  

In a very personal and frank chat Bernadette D’Souza talks about her ambitions, childhood, Bombay and Quepem – her home during her childhood years.

Tell us about your childhood in Quepem, Goa and also about your father Tony Gomes, who was a renowned musician of yesteryears.

I was born in Goa to loving parents Anthony (Tony) and Esmeralda Gomes. I have fond memories of my childhood in Quepem. Every summer holidays in May, we would visit with our grandparents, Joao and Anamaria Gomes. We had a fun time visiting with relatives. My parents often entertained friends and relatives in our home. The feast days were special.  There was so much excitement around the house.  To raise funds for a worthy cause, my father arranged for a New Year’s Eve dance in the Quepem Municipal Garden.  I remember going to see him perform.  It was well-attended and the people of Quepem appreciated his kindness.  It was such a proud moment for me as his daughter. My father never hesitated to give a helping hand to those in need.

My father was a well renowned musician in Bollywood.  My early childhood was spent in Mumbai because of my father’s employment.  He was the primary influence in my life and was my role model.  He would take me to the film recording studios, where I watched him play his guitar.  Many of my leadership traits were taken from the examples of my father.  He was the first Indian musician to introduce the electric guitar in Hindi movies. I remember being introduced to the music directors and other musicians that he worked with, and was in awe of his greatness.  His untimely death left a sudden void in my life and compelled me to carry on his message of striving to achieve my full potential.  His outstanding legacy will always be a part of my life.

As a Catholic girl from Goa, how was it like for you growing up in Bombay? 

We lived in an area that was predominantly Goan Catholics.  I attended a nearby Catholic school in my early years. As the oldest child of 8 children, my father wanted me to have a good education and sent me to a convent boarding school in Siolim, Goa. My father always emphasized on how important an education was and had great expectations of me.  I thrived while there and was the head girl of my class. I came back to Bombay to attend college and graduated from the University of Bombay with a degree in Psychology (with Honors).

With husband Dr. Terence D'Souza

You moved to the U.S. in 1978. Was it primarily because of academic reasons or were there any other reasons?

I came to the United States in 1978, as a young bride having married my husband, Dr. Terence D’Souza of Cuncolim, Goa.  He came to the US to do a medical residency in Neurology.  I chose to stay home and raise our 3 wonderful children, Lloyd, Vanessa and Christine.  When our youngest entered kindergarten, I decided to go back to school and was admitted to Tulane University Law School in New Orleans.  I graduated in 1992 with a Juris Doctor (JD) degree. In 2002, I was appointed as an adjunct professor to teach a course at Tulane Law School.

How was your initial experience in the U.S.? Did you encounter racial discrimination?

My initial experience in the U.S. was a lot easier.  Both my husband and I adapted very easily to the culture of New Orleans.  New Orleans is a great city and the people are welcoming and hospitable.  New Orleans is a city very much like the cities in Goa, with Spanish and French influences.  It is predominantly Catholic with lots of old churches.  We quickly made friends and became a part of the community that we live in.  We did not experience any racial discrimination. Our accomplishments as a physician and a lawyer helped break any cultural barriers.

What motivates you in taking up public service?

As a public interest lawyer, I worked at a non-profit law firm and represented the indigent population of our city.  People who could not afford a lawyer obtained free legal services. I was the managing attorney of the family law and domestic violence unit.  Representing the poor of our city gave me an understanding of the need to offer myself for public service.

With Chief Justice Caloger and Louisiana State Bar Association President Guy de Laup after receiving the Career Public Interest Award in 2008

Why is the issue of domestic violence so close to your heart?

In 2000 I was the board president of the Young Christian Women’s Association (YWCA). The YWCA had the premier battered women’s program in the city.  The incidents of domestic violence were growing.  I saw a need for representation of victims of domestic violence and through my law firm applied for funding to the Department of Justice to represent the victims in civil court.  I established the unit at Southeast Louisiana Legal Services and began my work. The issue of domestic violence is so close to my heart because of an incident that occurred outside the courthouse.  My client was gunned down by her husband in my presence after a court proceeding.  I truly believe that God had spared my life and so I became purpose driven to make a difference in the lives of the victims and their children. 

Having being brought up as a Catholic Goan girl, to what extent did it influence your personality and outlook on life?

I attended a Catholic boarding school in Siolim, Goa where the emphasis was on education and leadership. The nuns in the boarding school also instilled in me a strong desire to help the needy. “To those whom much is given, much is expected,” is a quote from John F. Kennedy.  I have continued to be involved in the Archdiocese of New Orleans, having served as a pastoral council member in my parish.  I also serve as a lector and Eucharistic minister. 

With her entire family

Can share with our readers some interesting anecdotes or incidents that you experienced in the process of your amalgamation in American society, in the sense of being accepted in America?

My career path in public interest law has been a gratifying and rewarding experience.  I thank God, my wonderful husband and children, who have been my source of strength and grace that has enabled me to continue the work I do for my community. I have been honored by the community in New Orleans having received numerous awards and recognitions, and most recently honored as the 2011 Women of the Year by City Business, a local newspaper.  The American society recognizes success and excellence, and acceptance has not been a problem.  In addition my children have also been finding success in their own careers.  My son Lloyd is a writer director in Hollywood, my daughter Vanessa (Michael DePetrillo) is a Patent Attorney in New Orleans and my daughter Christine is Director of International Sales and Acquisitions at Preferred Content in Los Angeles.  We are proud grandparents of Aidan Michael DePetrillo.

Email: bdsouza54@gmail.com

            Web: www.bernadettedsouza.com

(A version of this interview appeared on Gomantak Times, dt: February 15, 2012)

For the Konknni translation see here.